Insecurity, for the cute or for the ugly???

I kind of getting sick and tired of people saying that it is really insecure to be dating a cute looking guy. Not that I am really that good looking, but all thanks to my well cultured Yak Essence and the well maintained Loh Cradle, I'm not unfortunate looking... LOL

There are two sides to a coin as always. One always say that to date a good looking guy is always a risk of him running away with other as competition is strong. Thus, insecurity is suppose to be with the less attractive looking one. However, has one thought of it the other way round?

If a person is good looking or cute, he should have a certain view on looks and appearance. Hence, if he is attracted to the other guy, the other guy should be really great looking as well. Besides, isn't it a bonus to be out with a cute or handsome looking boyfriend or husband where everyone will kind of jealous of you? Why should one always think of otherwise? If one is to say that a cute looking person is always "hit on" by others, it is in fact, true that he got hit on so many times that he feel like practically a "sex object" to others. Because of that, he should be the one who is insecure about himself as he had seen the worst of all. One just wanted a simple life and a simple partner, looks is secondary.

So, back to square one, one has to have faith in themselves, parents gave you the pleasant look, education gave you the logical thought and lastly, god gave you the heart, not to just keep the pulse from beating, but the faith to endorse.... to have faith in yourself.

Take home message, If you can tame a lion, that makes you stronger than a lion.